This is one of the many topics that has been exhausting me recently;
– Dating in 2017. Erhk!
Actually I don’t even know if people get to ‘dating‘ before somebody has seen enough of them.
Yes, I was apart of this time wasting, self absorbent, phase for the past few years, although I have signed myself off for dating as I don’t want any part of the current dating game. I realized how fucking crazy I am to try and look atleast a seven out of ten every damn day, then to spend countless hours getting that lighting or that filter, because I want to keep this one, and he needs to know I am atleast a seven! This is all for guys, that don’t even ask how I am? Let alone any other questions I would usually want to be asked, from any potential candidates to be the future daddy of my kittens. Sorry, what? People are more worried about how I look, than how I am actually doing. Since when is looking perfect the key to any sort of relationship, friendship even. I came to the conclusion that this is it, for as long as I can keep shooting those selfies, this pointless game will be played.
That’s what I have stooped to? Putting LIFE on hold, for guys that may not ever, even take me on a date. But I will spend 10 minutes of my time to make sure he gets a good photo of me? Am I not worth a conversation? A phone call to chat, a laugh? A date? Since when did I need to please a man, to be able to be pleased with myself?
That is why I have officially signed off dating in 2017.
There’s so much living to be had, there is currently seven and a half billion people on this earth, I will be damned if I will continue to waste any more time on trying to impress any one human, that is not myself.
So please, be greater than society, you are worthy of so much more!
Cheers, ‘To all the ladies in the place with style and grace!’ – The Notorious B.I.G.